An Afternoon With Miss Kim Rub, A Living Breathing Femdom Legacy

The world of kink, BDSM and fetish is one which fascinates and intrigues me no end, with certain members of society being truly engrossed into it from long before I walked on the planet. One such person who encompasses this ethos is none other than Femdom legend Miss Kim Rub, a lady who’s wealth of knowledge far outstrips my own. If this were a game of Top Trumps, Miss Kim Rub’s stats would even make the most seasoned of players faint with envy. Her numerous achievements are far to lengthy to be listed here, although I most certainly recommend that you take the time to extensively read her monthly newsletter. Not to mention check out Miss Kim’s classes teaching BDSM, kink and fetish to novices and experienced ladies alike. I shall be linking all of her social pages at the end of this blog post so that you can see them all for yourself. This will give you all an in-depth understanding into the life of a lady who has almost devoted her entire lifetime to kink, fetish and BDSM. My own time in kink and BDSM has opened so many doors for me, so coming face to face with Miss Kim was one of the best moments in my kink career thus far.

I’d already become a veteran when it came to the number of meetings I’d had with Miss Kim, having attended at least two Queen Bee Society Drinks evenings in the past, as well as featuring on a video podcast series entitled ‘Kinky Points Of View’. Miss Kim’s humble abode was a location which very much sums up the meaning of the words, ‘hidden in plain sight’. It was a semi detached ordinary building which didn’t look out of place to the parade of shops or the high rise tower blocks around it. Naturally I won’t be divulging exactly where Miss Kim is located on a map, (as I know Miss Kim won’t thank me for shouting about where she lives). However what I can tell you is that the outside and the inside are completely polar opposites to each other. From the outside. the building itself looks like the personal art gallery of Banksy the street painting artist. The door is so jet-black in colour that it could easily be mistaken for the midnight sky above on a starless night, or even the inside of a coal mine. But the moment you step in through the door, your world is immediately transformed to worlds you couldn’t begin to imagine. It’s a maze of imagination, where kink and vanilla collide in a whirlpool of light and shadow.

It’s a lifetimes collection of memories, globally travelled expeditions and famous names in the world of BDSM, kink and fetish. I knew even before I’d crossed the threshold how many great names had walked in through the same doorway before me. Showing far more confidence than I truly had, I rung the doorbell and eagerly awaited for the stunningly divine Miss Kim to answer it. It was a tense few seconds, as I honesty thought that perhaps the doorbell hadn’t worked properly. I contemplated ringing it again, when suddenly the door opened and there stood Miss Kim, bubble gum pink hair swaying slightly from the light breeze outside. Having just unsaddled myself from a motorcycle, my own hair wasn’t exactly in you might call ‘showroom condition’. Despite this fact, Miss Kim still welcomed me in with open arms and a cheeky smile, displaying an air of elegance that I’d not seen in a long time. Miss Kim was bedecked in purely leather attire, but yet still emitted a level of power and control that is only visible in the mind. I can see why Miss Kim’s Podcast (What Would Kim Do?) is such a hit, because she’s one hell of an interviewer.

Over a course of strawberries and cream with multiple cups of tea, Miss Kim and I divulged into each others lives, including our shared passions of aviation and motoring. Turns out that Miss Kim in her earlier days had been one hell of a biker, powering around on some truly classical motorcycles. The sort of motorcycles which true petrolhead collectors would dribble in awe at from days gone by such as Norton’s, Triumph’s, BSA’s, AJS’s, even the odd Vincent here and there. My own motorcycle is considered to be a modern classic, so the moment that Miss Kim caught site of my biker chick leathers and proudly adorned Triumph jacket, there was just one course of action to take. That’s right folks, a mini photoshoot with two leather clad ladies each showing our support for the biking community. As many of you may not know, the vast majority of photos that I take are from professional photoshoots, so posing for the camera is not an alien concept to me. Not only did Miss Kim highlight to me that I’d been doing it wrong for years, but she then took the time to correct me on my posture and highlight how best to position myself in the future.

Some of us may remember that scene in the Pixar animated movie Toy Story where the little green aliens are rescued by Mr Potato Head, whereby they triumphantly exclaim “you have saved our lives, we are eternally grateful”. My words to Miss Kim on this occasion would be “you have saved my modelling image, I am eternally grateful forever and always”. It was a truly fabulous afternoon and one which would be later immortalised in print during Miss Kim’s May edition of her newsletter. I’m truly looking forward to seeing Miss Kim again soon, and encourage you all to follow her on X, Fetlife, even subscribe to her newsletter for more exciting monthly action from Rub Towers. Also if your a domme, do please take the opportunity to attend the Queen Bee Drinks in London, plus catch Miss Kim at the Gynarchy Gathering in Bedfordshire. I’m attaching Miss Kim’s Links below so you can all find Miss Kim and bask in the brilliance of a lady who is truly the headmistress of kink high. (Plus being able to dress the part too hehe).

misskimlinktree.com

MistressWorkshop.com

Thank you again Miss Kim for a truly wonderful Sunday afternoon, and I look forward to seeing you again soon.

Stay safe and kinky out there everybody

With Best Wishes

Mistress Sophie Of Hertfordshire 🙂

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